Matšoao a 11 a khatello ea maikutlo bongoaneng le mokhoa oa ho sebetsana le ona

Litaba

• Matšoao a ka supang khatello ea maikutlo
• Likhoeli tse 6 ho isa ho tse 2
• Lilemo tse 2 ho isa ho tse 6
• Lilemo tse 6 ho isa ho tse 12
• Mokhoa oa ho tseba khatello ea maikutlo ea bongoana
• Kalafo e etsoa joang
• Mokhoa oa ho sebetsana le ngoana ea tepelletseng maikutlo
• Ke eng e ka bakang khatello ea maikutlo bongoaneng

Matšoao a mang a ka supang khatello ea maikutlo bongoaneng a kenyelletsa ho hloka takatso ea ho bapala, ho kolobisa liphate, litletlebo khafetsa tsa mokhathala, hlooho e opang kapa bohloko ba mpeng le mathata a ho ithuta.

Matšoao ana a ka hlokomeleha kapa a fosahala ka lebaka la ho teneha kapa ho ba lihlong, leha ho le joalo haeba matšoao ana a lula nako e fetang libeke tse 2 ho eletsoa ho ea ngakeng ea bana ho etsa tlhahlobo ea boemo ba bophelo bo botle ba kelello le ho lekola tlhoko ea ho qala kalafo.

Maemong a mangata, kalafo e kenyelletsa linako tsa kalafo ea kelello le ts'ebeliso ea lithethefatsi tse loantšang khatello ea maikutlo, empa tšehetso ea batsoali le matichere e bohlokoa ho thusa ngoana ho tsoa khatello ea maikutlo, hobane bothata bona bo ka sitisa kholo ea ngoana.

Matšoao a ka supang khatello ea maikutlo

Matšoao a khatello ea maikutlo ea bongoaneng a fapana ho ea ka lilemo tsa ngoana mme ha ho mohla bonolo a fumanoang, a hlokang tlhahlobo e felletseng ke ngaka ea bana. Leha ho le joalo, matšoao a mang a ka lemosang batsoali a kenyelletsa:

1. Sefahleho se hlonameng, ho hlahisa mahlo a lerootho le a sa bososelang le 'mele o oeleng le o fokolang, joalo ka ha a lula a khathetse mme a shebile sekheo;
2. Ho hloka takatso ea ho bapala eseng a le mong kapa le bana ba bang;
3. Ho otsela ho hongata, mokhathala o sa feleng le ho hloka matla a lefeela;
4. Ho teneha le ho teneha kapele ntle le lebaka le utloahalang, a shebahala joaloka ngoana ea hlonameng, a le maemong a mabe le maemo a mabe;
5. Ho lla habonolo le ho feteletsa, ka lebaka la kutlo e fetelletseng;
6. Ho hloka takatso ea lijo hore e ka lebisa ho fokotsa boima ba 'mele, empa maemong a mang ho kanna ha ba le takatso e kholo ea lipompong;
7. Ho thata ho robala le litoro tse ngata tse tšosang;
8. Tšabo le bothata ba ho arohana mme kapa ntate;
9. Ho ikutloa o nyenyefalitsoehaholo malebana le metsoalle setsing sa tlhokomelo ea bana kapa sekolong;
10. Ts'ebetso e mpe ea sekolo, e kanna ea ba le lintlha tse khubelu le ho hloka tlhokomelo;
11. Ho hloka taolo ea mosese le mantle, kamora ho ba le bokhoni ba ho se roale leleiri.

Le ha matšoao ana a khatello ea maikutlo a tloaelehile baneng, a ka totobala haholoanyane ho lilemo tsa ngoana.

Likhoeli tse 6 ho isa ho tse 2

Matšoao a mantlha a khatello ea maikutlo bongoaneng, a etsahalang ho fihlela a le lilemo li 2, ke ho hana ho ja, boima bo tlase, seemo se senyane le puo e liehang le mathata a ho robala.

Lilemo tse 2 ho isa ho tse 6

Lilemong tsa bana ba sa keneng sekolo, tse etsahalang lipakeng tsa lilemo tse 2 le 6, maemong a mangata bana ba lula ba tenehile, mokhathala o mongata, takatso e nyane ea ho bapala, ho hloka matla, ho lla betheng le ho felisa mantle ka boomo.

Ntle le moo, ba kanna ba thatafalloa haholo ke ho arohana le 'm'a bona kapa ntate oa bona, ba qoba ho bua kapa ho lula le bana ba bang mme ba lula ba le bang. Ho kanna ha ba le ho lla haholo le ho phofa le ho ba le bothata bo boholo ba ho robala.

Lilemo tse 6 ho isa ho tse 12

Ha a le lilemong tsa ho kena sekolo, se etsahalang lipakeng tsa lilemo tse 6 le 12, khatello ea maikutlo e iponahatsa ka matšoao a ts'oanang a boletsoeng pejana, ntle le ho ba le bothata ba ho ithuta, ho tsepamisa mohopolo o tlase, lintlha tse khubelu, ho itšehla thajana, ho ba le kutlo e fetelletseng le ho teneha kapele, ho se tsotelle, ho hloka mamello, hlooho le mala le liphetoho boima.

Ntle le moo, hangata ho na le maikutlo a ho inyenyefatsa, a leng mabe ho feta bana ba bang mme a lula a bua polelo e kang "ha ho motho ea nthatang" kapa "Ha ke tsebe ho etsa eng kapa eng".

Ha a le lilemong tsa bocha, matšoao a ka fapana, kahoo haeba ngoana oa hau a fetile lilemo tse 12, bala ka matšoao a khatello ea maikutlo ea bocha.

Mokhoa oa ho tseba khatello ea maikutlo ea bongoana

Tlhahlobo e atisa ho etsoa ka liteko tse etsoang ke ngaka le tlhahlobo ea litšoantšo, joalo ka ha ngoana maemong a mangata a ke ke a tlaleha hore o hloname ebile o tepelletse maikutlo, ka hona, batsoali ba tlameha ho ela hloko matšoao ohle mme ba bolelle ngaka hore e ba thuse phumano.

Leha ho le joalo, tlhahlobo ea lefu lena ha e bonolo, haholo hobane e ka ferekanngoa le liphetoho tsa botho tse kang lihlong, ho teneha, maikutlo a mabe kapa ho ba mabifi mme, maemong a mang, batsoali ba ka ba ba nka boits'oaro bo tloaelehileng lilemong tsa bona.

Kahoo, haeba phetoho ea bohlokoa boitšoarong ba ngoana e tsejoa, joalo ka ho lla khafetsa, ho teneha haholo kapa ho theola boima ba 'mele ntle le lebaka, motho o lokela ho ea ngakeng ea bana ho lekola monyetla oa ho ba le phetoho ea kelello.

Kalafo e etsoa joang

Bakeng sa ho folisa khatello ea maikutlo ea bongoaneng, ho hlokahala hore u tsamaee le ngaka ea bana, setsebi sa kelello, ngaka ea mafu a kelello, litho tsa lelapa le matichere mme kalafo e tlameha ho nka bonyane likhoeli tse 6 ho thibela ho oela hape.

Hangata, ho fihlela lilemo tse 9, kalafo e etsoa feela ka linako tsa kalafo ea kelello le setsebi sa kelello sa ngoana. Leha ho le joalo, kamora lilemo tseo kapa ha lefu le ke ke la phekoloa ka kalafo ea kelello feela, ho hlokahala hore o noe li-anti-depressing, joalo ka fluoxetine, sertraline kapa paroxetine. Ntle le moo, ngaka e ka khothaletsa litlhare tse ling joalo ka tse thusang ho feto-fetoha ha maikutlo, li-antipsychotic kapa li-stimulant.

Hangata, ts'ebeliso ea li-anti-depressing e qala ho sebetsa kamora matsatsi a 20 a e noe mme leha ngoana a se a sena matšoao, o lokela ho lula a sebelisa lithethefatsi ho qoba khatello ea maikutlo e sa foleng.

Ho thusa ho fola, batsoali le matichere ba tlameha ho sebetsa 'moho kalafong, ba khothaletse ngoana ho bapala le bana ba bang, ho etsa lipapali, ho nka karolo mesebetsing ea kantle le ho rorisa ngoana khafetsa.

Mokhoa oa ho sebetsana le ngoana ea tepelletseng maikutlo

Ho phela le ngoana ea nang le khatello ea maikutlo ha ho bonolo, empa batsoali, lelapa le matichere ba tlameha ho thusa ngoana ho hlola lefu lena e le hore a utloe a tšehelitsoe le hore ha a mong. Kahoo, motho o tlameha ho:

• Hlompha maikutlo ea ngoana, ho bontša hore baa li utloisisa;
• Khothaletsa ngoana ho nts'etsapele mesebetsi ya ratang ntle le ho baka khatello;
• Kamehla rorisa ngoana oa bana bohle ba banyenyane etsa le ho se khalemele ngoana ka pela bana ba bang;
• Fana ka tlhokomelo e ngata ho ngoana, ho bolela hore ba teng ho u thusa;
• Nka ngoana ho ea bapala le bana ba bang ho eketsa tšebelisano;
• Se ke oa lumella ngoana ho bapala a le mong, kapa hona ho lula ka kamoreng u le mong u shebelletse thelevishene kapa u bapala lipapali tsa video;
• Khothaletsa ho ja lihora tse ling le tse ling tse 3 ho lula u fepuoa;
• Boloka kamore e phutholohile ho thusa ngoana ho robala le ho robala hantle.

Mekhoa ena e tla thusa ngoana ho itšepa, ho qoba ho itšehla thajana le ho ntlafatsa boitšepo ba hae, ho thusa ngoana ho folisa khatello ea maikutlo.

Ke eng e ka bakang khatello ea maikutlo bongoaneng

Maemong a mangata, khatello ea maikutlo ea bongoana e hlaha ka lebaka la maemo a sithabetsang joalo ka likhang tse lulang li le teng lipakeng tsa litho tsa lelapa, tlhalo ea batsoali, phetoho ea sekolo, khaello ea puisano lipakeng tsa ngoana le batsoali kapa lefu la bona.

Ntle le moo, tlhekefetso, joalo ka peto kapa ho phela letsatsi le letsatsi le batsoali ba lemaletseng joala kapa makhoba a lithethefatsi, le tsona li ka tlatsetsa ho tepelleng maikutlo.