Tlhekefetso ea thobalano ho bana - seo u lokelang ho se tseba

Sengoliloeng sena se u joetsa seo u lokelang ho se etsa haeba u belaella hore ngoana o hlekefelitsoe ka thobalano.

Ngoanana a le mong ho ba bane le moshemane a le mong ho ba leshome o hlekefetsoa ka thobalano pele ba qeta lilemo tse 18.

Tlhekefetso ea bana ka thobalano ke ketso efe kapa efe eo mohlekefetsi a e etsang ho tsosa takatso ea thobalano, ho kenyelletsa:

• Ho ama litho tsa botona kapa botšehali tsa ngoana
• Ho thetsa litho tsa mothetsi ka letlalo kapa liaparo tsa ngoana
• Ho kenya dintho ka hara koko kapa botshehadi ba ngoana
• Ho atla maleme
• Ho kopanela liphate ka molomo
• Thobalano

Tlhekefetso ea thobalano e ka etsahala ntle le ho ama 'mele, joalo ka:

• Ho pepesa litho tsa hae tsa botona kapa botšehali
• Ho ba le ngoana ea hlahisang litšoantšo tsa bootsoa
• Ho ba le ngoana ho sheba litšoantšo tse manyala tse hlephisang boitšoaro
• Ho ipholla litho tsa botona kapa botšehali ka pel'a ngoana

Ho belaella tlhekefetso ea thobalano ha bana:

• Ba u joetse hore ba hlekefetsoa ka thobalano
• Ho ba le bothata ba ho lula kapa ho ema
• E ke ke ea fetoha bakeng sa boikoetliso
• Ho ba le mafu a likobo kapa ho ima
• Tseba ka thobalano le ho bua ka eona
• Baleha
• E-ba le batho ba baholo bophelong ba bona bo ba sitisang ho kopana le batho ba bang ba baholo
• Ipoloke ho bona mme o bonahale o na le liphiri

Bana ba hlekefelitsoeng ka thobalano ba ka ba le:

• Mathata a ho laola 'mele, joalo ka ho itšepa (encopresis)
• Mathata a ho ja (anorexia nervosa)
• Mathata a thobalano kapa a methapo, joalo ka bohloko ha u ea ka kamoreng ea ho hlapela, kapa ho hlohlona kapa ho ntša metsi ka bosaling
• Ho tšoaroa ke hlooho
• Mathata a boroko
• Ho opeloa ke mpa

Bana ba hlekefelitsoeng ka thobalano le bona ba ka:

• Sebelisa joala kapa lithethefatsi
• Kopanela mekhoeng e kotsi ea thobalano
• Fumana limaraka tse tlase sekolong
• E-ba le tšabo e ngata
• Ha ba batle ho etsa mesebetsi ea bona e tloaelehileng

Haeba u nahana hore ngoana o hlekefelitsoe ka thobalano, etsa hore ngoana a hlahlojoe ke mofani oa tlhokomelo ea bophelo.

• Fumana mofani oa litšebeletso ea tsebang ka tlhekefetso ea thobalano. Boholo ba lingaka tsa bana, bafani ba meriana ea malapa le ba fanang ka likamore tsa maemo a tšohanyetso ba koetliselitsoe ho hlahloba batho ba hlekefelitsoeng ka thobalano.
• Etsa hore ngoana a hlahlojoe hang-hang kapa pele ho feta matsatsi a mabeli ho isa ho a mararo a tseba tlhekefetso. Matšoao a tlhekefetso ea thobalano ha a tšoarelle nako e telele, mme mofani oa thepa a kanna a se tsebe ho tseba haeba u ema nako e telele haholo.

Nakong ea tlhahlobo, mofani o tla:

• Batla matšoao a tlhekefetso ea 'mele le thobalano. Mofani oa litšebeletso o tla hlahloba molomo oa ngoana, 'metso, anus, le botona kapa botšehali.
• Etsa liteko tsa mali ho hlahloba mafu a tšoaetsanoang ka thobalano le bokhachane.
• Nka linepe tsa likotsi life kapa life, ha ho hlokahala.

Fumanela ngoana tlhokomelo efe kapa efe e hlokahalang ea bongaka. Hape fumanela ngoana tlhabollo ea bophelo bo botle ba kelello. Lihlopha tse tšehetsang tse sebetsang tse ka thusang li kenyelletsa:

• Childhelp - www.childhelp.org
• Peto, Tlhekefetso & Incest Network ea Naha - www.rainn.org

Tseba hore bafani, matichere le basebetsi ba tlhokomelo ea bana ba hlokoa ke molao ho tlaleha tlhekefetso ea motabo. Haeba ho belaelloa tlhekefetso, mekhatlo ea ts'ireletso ea bana le mapolesa ba tla etsa lipatlisiso. Ngwana o tlameha ho sireletswa kgahlanong le tlhekefetso. Ngoana a ka beoa le motsoali ea sa sebeliseng hampe, mong ka eena e mong, kapa lelapeng le holisang bana.

Tlhekefetso ka motabo - bana

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Webosaete ea Lefapha la Bophelo le Litšebeletso tsa Botho la US. Heke ea Boitsebiso ka Boiketlo ba Bana. Boitsebiso ba tlhekefetso ea motabo. www.childwelfare.gov/topics/can/identifying/sex-abuse. E fihlile ka la 15 November, 2018.

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